Tweet Thread Tools: post #1 of 7 Old 10-20-2012, 05:00 AM Thread Starter. Social Anxiety Forum > Recovery > Frustration > Is Incel a 'Life sentence'? Reply.There’s plenty more slang used on incel forums, but a. But predominately, the incel community is an online space, gathering on forum sites like 4chan, Reddit, and the now defunct.I kind of believe that social fulfillment / sexual fulfillment, make men feel potent, strong, and allows for a balance between perceived and actual identity.